Were approaching that wonderful once-a-year Turkey Day! For me, Turkey Day memories revolve around going to the football game between The University of Texas Longhorns (yea!) and the Texas A &M Aggies (boo!). Because that game was traditionally on Thanksgiving Day, my family wouldnt have the turkey and dressing meal but would opt for roast beef sandwiches and potato chips eaten out of the trunk of the car in our version of a tail-gater. I love those memories! And I still love watching my Longhorns beat up on those Aggies! (Hookem Horns!) However, I now realize that there is something more important about this holiday than turkey and football. It is, after all, called THANKSgiving! Lets look at thanks a little more closely this year. I believe that living with a thankful heart is the first step towards living a truly joyful life. It isnt always easy to be thankful. Sometimes real life presents challenges, hard times, trials, and circumstances for which an average person would never consider being thankful! However, since you are NOT average, I believe you will appreciate this view of thanks. T THINK Renew your mind. Be intentional about what direction you allow your thoughts to take. Dont drift into sin. Think like God. Ask God to transform your thinking. Plug good things into your thinking: scripture, inspirational reading, devotional books and stories about people who have triumphed in all manner of circumstances. H HORIZON Take the long term view. Remember there is always a bigger picture than what youre experiencing right now. Ask God to help you have that long term perspective to see things from His vantage point. I love the description of life being like a parade. We are on the street watching the parade go by and can only see what is immediately in front of us. God, however, is up high and can see the entire parade in one instant beginning, middle and end so He has the big picture, the 50,000 foot view! A APPRECIATE Appreciate what you have. Train your mind to focus on the positives in your life the things you have that are treasures to you. Too many times we allow ourselves to focus on what everyone else has that we dont have. We can easily have a pity party, looking only at the things that are missing from our lives. That serves no purpose other than to drain our energy and our joy and turn us into crotchety, grumpy, negative people. How much better to CHOOSE to focus on the things we do have that are positive, those undeserved gifts and blessings. N NOW Be where you are NOW in life. Enjoy it NOW. Be what God wants you to be today. By continually looking for whats next, we overlook opportunities for today. If you dont live now here youll be nowhere. K KNOW Know what is important. If you imagine yourself on your death bed, what is that you would most wish for? I guarantee it would be your spouse, your kids, your grandkids, your loved ones. By knowing what is most important each and every day, all those other things that want to vie for your attention will be shoved aside. S SHARE We expect our kids to be nice and share. How about us? By sharing what God gives us (both tangible and intangible), our grip loosens and we are set free. Think. Horizon. Appreciate. Now. Know. Share. THANKS! This applies all year round, not just at Thanksgiving. Lets use this Thanksgiving as an opportunity to turn over a new leaf of being thankful all year long. |